I like this stuff and so does my girlfriend , I put some on my **** and put it in, that feels better than stopping and putting it in and waiting. it really does work, I would use it all the time but I dont want to offend my girlfriend. I have tried to get her to practice the kegel exercises and am very persuasive in my arguments, but I am much more of a *** freak than she is. so this has been good as she notices how much she likes it and that has started to help her understand why I am an advocate for better tone. we used it the other day and must have had intercourse for about 2 hours, I have to stop frequently otherwise it would be all over. Its a small tube and I dont use that much, it has a bit of a grainy texture which you can break down by rubbing it between your fingers,before applying it. I make out with her then I gently massage it in to my **** or put it in her *****, if you stop having *** and go back to it after a few hours it tightens back up. if she gets really wet it losens up a bit but that is sort of a relief at that point.