First of all; this gag is very well made! It looks sexy & I feel sexy when I wear it! It's a bit big for me because I have a little mouth but I don't care, I'll get used to it! I love wearing it! Hubby makes me wear it because I'm a screamer & we don't wanna wake the neighbors. Also he's able to have his way with me & there's no way I'm gonna object with my mouth full of this sexy gag! I love that he's able to lock the buckle just in case I have any ideas of tampering with it. Of course I'm so into wearing this gag that I have no intentions of taking it off! Ever! I will definitely be buying a back up!